The tents used by General Washington during the
American Revolution were cherished relics at Arlington. From B.
J. Lossing, "Arlington House," Harper's Monthly Magazine, VII
(Sept. 1853), 444.
History of Arlington to 1861 (continued)
HOME LIFE AT ARLINGTON. An equal source of
inspiration at "Arlington House" was the religious atmosphere of its
home life. Mrs. Custis was a devout Episcopalian, noted for her
simplicity and piety. It was she who influenced Robert F. Lee's Sunday
school teacher, Bishop William Meade, to enter the ministry. Diligent
where her husband was inclined to be easy-going, Mrs. Custis was one
with him in making Arlington free from ostentation.
Kept unspoiled by her parents' example, Mary Custis
was given the education deemed necessary for a young lady of her
position, and as soon as she was old enough herself taught the children
of nearby families and family servants. Though an only child, she never
lacked companionship, for usually the house overflowed with relatives
and their children. The Custises, too, often went visiting, especially
to "Ravensworth," formerly the home of Mrs. Custis' father and now owned
by her only brother. Here Mary must have played as a child with Robert
E. Lee, for he and his mother were also related to the Fitzhughs and
often visited at their estate. The Lees were familiar with Arlington as
well, for Robert was a favorite with the Custises from boyhood. He and
Mary Custis are said to have planted some of the trees in the vicinity
of the house when they were young.
Title page of the 1830 edition of Custis'
most popular play.
MARRIAGE OF MARY CUSTIS AND ROBERT E. LEE. Childhood
friendship turned to love by the time Lee graduated from West Point and
was assigned to duty in the Corps of Engineers. Whenever possible he was
at Arlington courting Mary Custis, and in the summer of 1830 they became
engaged.
The evening of the wedding, June 30, 1831, was one of
steady rain, but nothing could affect the warmth and happiness inside
the friendly portals of Arlington. The ceremony was formal and elaborate
as befitted the union of two of the most prominent families of Virginia.
The happy couple, surrounded by pretty bridesmaids and uniformed
groomsmen, made a picturesque scene.
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